Every hero needs a challenge. Usually, the biggest challenges forge the greatest heroes.

Powerful myths and fairy tales operate from these premises, and the most engaging adventure movies make us wonder if the characters will ever break through the mighty obstacles blocking their paths.

We respect and admire the intrepid souls who rise to the occasion, who confront their demons and dragons head-on. If we hope to truly accept and inspire ourselves, we have to do the same thing in every day life.

Dragons are everywhere, but they masquerade as petty tyrants, a term used by Carlos Castaneda.

A petty tyrant doesnt punch you in the nose. He or she will simply make your life miserable by frustrating you, by putting a pebble or two in your shoes.

Need that report, yesterday? Youll just have to stand in line, along with everyone, else!

A tyrant will offer you a bite of cake, knowing youre trying to be good, trying to stick to your diet.

When youre starting that exercise program, shell say, I feel so tired, dont you?

You want to get ahead at work, putting in extra effort and longer hours.

This place will steal your soul, shell warn.

Dragons such as these dont openly breathe fire and spit venom, but they are just as dangerous.

Theyre everywhere, and they can defeat us in other ways, like a million, tiny paper cuts.

So, confront them, even if theyre minor irritants, now. This will give you strength and energy, and youll learn what everyday heroism is all about.